In His Own Words
About Him
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I am soft and tough, loyal fun-loving and touch-loving versatile man who enjoys music and films, theatre and different art forms, bush and camping, reading and dancing, sport and exercise and travelling.
Being fairly attractive, my family and friends describe me as caring, endearing, touch-loving and playful - operating sometimes with the softness of the heart and sometimes with the toughness of the head, most of the times however with playfulness, humour, laughter and inner chuckling (binnepret).
The mystery of unspoken attraction between two people and the overlapping of the threesome of chemistries of the minds/ heads, hearts/souls and bodies is either there or it is not there.
I will try to be my own kind of unique classy excellent self
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About His Ideal Match
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I am interested in a kind, tough and attractive versatile female companion who has an awareness of her uniqueness and is mindful that she is excellent in her own uniqueness. The mystique of a woman who has the awareness of being through and through an unique woman in the mind, heart/soul and bodily sense is very attractive to me.
Dynamic overlapping between a man and a woman's uniqueness in the threesome sense of the chemistries of the minds, hearts (souls) and bodies attracts me more than the formal ticking off of items in the matching game.
Adding to the recipe that she is touch-loving and fun-loving, entertained by other people's sporty actions and interested in moving her body regularly - does not matter whether it be gymming, jogging, running, dancing, walking, scuba- or sky-diving, tennis or yoga.
Just be your own kind of unique classy excellent self.
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What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Hatfield), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
78 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
190cm (6' 2.8") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Dutch; English; German | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
PhD / Post Doctoral | |
Occupation: |
Teacher / Professor | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
60 - 75 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 195cm (6' 4.8") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; German; Greek; Hebrew; Hindi; Italian; Japanese; Korean; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Russian; Swedish; Other | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Kosher | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Athletics; Baseball; Basketball; Birdwatching; Body building; Camping; Cricket; Cycling; Dancesport; Darts; Fencing; Fishing; Golf; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Rowing; Rugby; Running; Sailing; Scuba diving; Skiing; Snooker; Soccer; Softball; Squash; Swimming; Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |
