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toughsofty

78 – Pretoria (Hatfield), Gauteng, South Africa

I love the three chemistries of the Mind, Heart and Body

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In His Own Words

About Him

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I am soft and tough, loyal fun-loving and touch-loving versatile man who enjoys music and films, theatre and different art forms, bush and camping, reading and dancing, sport and exercise and travelling.

Being fairly attractive, my family and friends describe me as caring, endearing, touch-loving and playful - operating sometimes with the softness of the heart and sometimes with the toughness of the head, most of the times however with playfulness, humour, laughter and inner chuckling (binnepret).

The mystery of unspoken attraction between two people and the overlapping of the threesome of chemistries of the minds/ heads, hearts/souls and bodies is either there or it is not there.

I will try to be my own kind of unique classy excellent self

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About His Ideal Match

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I am interested in a kind, tough and attractive versatile female companion who has an awareness of her uniqueness and is mindful that she is excellent in her own uniqueness. The mystique of a woman who has the awareness of being through and through an unique woman in the mind, heart/soul and bodily sense is very attractive to me.

Dynamic overlapping between a man and a woman's uniqueness in the threesome sense of the chemistries of the minds, hearts (souls) and bodies attracts me more than the formal ticking off of items in the matching game.

Adding to the recipe that she is touch-loving and fun-loving, entertained by other people's sporty actions and interested in moving her body regularly - does not matter whether it be gymming, jogging, running, dancing, walking, scuba- or sky-diving, tennis or yoga.

Just be your own kind of unique classy excellent self.

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Pretoria (Hatfield), Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
78
Star Sign:
Libra
Height:
190cm (6' 2.8")
Body Type:
Athletic
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Hazel
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Ask me later
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; Dutch; English; German
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Teacher / Professor
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the World
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
60 - 75
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 195cm (6' 4.8")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; German; Greek; Hebrew; Hindi; Italian; Japanese; Korean; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Russian; Swedish; Other
Religion:
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Kosher
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Trying to Quit
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Medium; Well-behaved
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Light
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Silly
Valued Qualities:
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion Sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World
Reading:
I love it
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Science / Technology; Travel
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
TV Shows:
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sport; Talk shows
Movie Frequency:
Once or twice a month
Movie Preferences:
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance
Interests:
Board games; Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sport Involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Athletics; Baseball; Basketball; Birdwatching; Body building; Camping; Cricket; Cycling; Dancesport; Darts; Fencing; Fishing; Golf; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Rowing; Rugby; Running; Sailing; Scuba diving; Skiing; Snooker; Soccer; Softball; Squash; Swimming; Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; White water rafting
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Asian Fusion; Chinese; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work at home
Time Online:
Once or twice a week
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family Closeness:
We're very close
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Other; Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Sarcasm
The Deep Stuff
Dream Home:
Beach house
Politics:
Liberal
Retirement Plans:
Backpacking around the globe
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City Dating:
Hopeful
Honesty:
Very