In Her Own Words
About Her
What I like:
Nature:
The ocean, soft white beach sand, palm trees, the sound of crashing waves, the smell of the sea.
Thunderstorms, lightning, hard rain, hail, wind, soft drizzle, mist and fog, the smell after it rains, wet earth, fresh air, the way the garden seems to come alive after the rain , all fresh and sparkly, clean and pure.
I love the smell of spring and summer.
Music:
It makes me feel alive, brightens my soul, makes me happy, makes me think, makes me dance - keeps me alive...
I love to dance, I forget everyone around me and focus on the rhythm of the music, I move my body to the rhythm, nothing else matters, at this time all worry escapes my mind, I am free. I am in my own world. I am me. I don't lose myself on the dance floor - I find myself!
I am a free wild spirit, I don't like having boundaries, I don't like having rules or people telling me what I can and can't do. This is my life. I live it as I want; I do whatever makes me happy. I live my life with no boundaries, no limits.
I love to feel loved. I love to know that I am in love with someone and they feel the same way about me. There is no greater feeling than this.
I love to see the look of gratitude in someone's eyes when I help them or give to them. This inspires me. I love to make people happy, help make their dreams come true, help them to succeed. I will do whatever I can in my power to help someone. This makes me feel like a better better, like I have a reason to be on this earth.
I like my space. I like being alone sometimes. I write, talk to myself, sing, dance, would have loved to be able to draw, where I get to spend time alone with me and I get to think for awhile, for myself. I love to be alone and free. I don't like restrictions, I rebel. I could never be caged up. I would rather die than not have my freedom, my choice, and my life.
The most important thing to me is my happiness, my success, my health, my freedom.... then come my family, my loved ones, my friends, my animals.....
About Her Ideal Match
I believe there's no such thing as an ideal match...... I do believe in chemistry and love at first sight. Respect, somebody that is easy going, enjoy life to the fullest, especially funny, honest, trustworthy, stable, who is fair, understanding, caring, good family orientated, healthy, and last and not least a good listener.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Sandton (Randburg), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Navel ring; More piercings |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Sarcastic; Shy; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; World |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fantasy; Mystery; Romance |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Reality shows; Soap operas; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Romance |
Interests: |
Card games; Gardening; Healthy living; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Shopping; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Camping; Cycling; Dancesport; Darts; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Pool; Rowing; Running; Squash; Swimming; Volleyball; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Honesty: |
Extremely |