In Her Own Words
About Her
It's become such a rarity nowadays to fall in love with somebody and stay in love with them. People seem to forget how beautiful it is to grow old with someone. To know somebody like the back of your hand. To build and to witness someone's progression and to conquer obstacles as a team, instead of facing them alone. I guess you can call me an old soul, I don't need to go out all the time and switch people up every other week to fulfill my boredom with temporary thrills. I always wanted something real. Someone so genuine that they're worth lasting a lifetime with. Someone who s willing to invest the time and effort that's needed to win. I understand that it's nearly impossible to count on someone with all of your heart and soul. It is more dangerous than anything. But I guess that 's why you can count on me as one of the rare one's. I'm not just in it for a reason, season or lifetime... I'm in it for all three.
About Her Ideal Match
They say love is blind - I disagree. Infatuation is blind. Love is all-seeing and accepting. Seeing all the flaws and blemishes and accepting them as well as the bad habits and mannerisms and working around them. Recognizing all the fears and insecurities and knowing your role is to comfort. Working through all the challenges and painful times.
I want someone who isn't afraid to admit that he miss me.
Someone who knows that I am not perfect but still treats me as if I am.
Someone who's biggest fear is losing our love.
Someone who gives his heart completely.
Someone to tell me he loves me, and Means it.
Last but not least...
Someone who wouldn't mind waking up with me in the morning, seeing my wrinkles and grey hair - but still falls for me all over again. It is never too late to live happily Ever After
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Polokwane (Pietersburg), Limpopo, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Limpopo, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
52 - 59 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") - 200cm (6' 6.7") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Intelligent; Naive; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; History; Romance |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Nature / Wildlife; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Mystery; Romance; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Gardening; Photography; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Cricket; Cycling; Fishing; Golf; Gymnastics; Motorsport; Rugby; Squash; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Honesty: |
Extremely |