In His Own Words
About Him
Why would it be a good idea idea for you to get to know me? Because you will meet someone attractive and intelligent. Because we will have lots of fun together.
If our chemistry works, our times together will be special and fun
Can a relationship like this work? A problem shared is a problem halved. You will have someone special to talk to, to bounce off ideas, to give you emotional support, to relax you
I feel a most blessed person. I am optimistic by nature, and that is why I am here - because I know that I will find a very special woman, and we are going to have incredible times together, and lots of fun
I am seeking a woman with whom I can talk, share ideas and problems
I am not looking for hookups. I am looking for the creativity of intimacy, the fun of sensuality
You should get to know me if are looking for someone energetic and sparky who makes life interesting and fun
Let's take time to get to know each other - to share ideas and dreams. And in our small way, to contribute to making the world a better place
I have a wide range of interests, intellectual, social, sporting and business
I often go to theatre, ballet and dance, concerts, poetry readings. The Grahamstown Festival is always wonderful. I enjoy interesting lectures and talks
Sport - I prefer to participate rather than watch. So you will not find me sitting in front of a TV. Running and gym are my main activities. Scuba diving was a passion - I still dive occasionally, I run and gym/exercise/yoga regularly, and have always kept fit.
I love travelling - seeing new cultures, tasting different cuisines, experiencing the art and architecture. I sometimes travel for business, and I always try to spend extra days to experience the special places my work takes me too, in particular the art museums.
I look forward to hearing from you. If you would like, please feel free to ask me for a photo.
Let's have a quick coffee. We can see whether we would like to get to know each other better
About His Ideal Match
My ideal match wants love and intimacy, she wants a companion to complement her life
My ideal match may be on her own, she may have children. She feels that she would like someone to talk with, to bounce off her ideas about life, a second perspective. Someone with whom she can discuss her challenges. Someone with whom she can share her joys.
I am hoping to meet an interesting and intelligent woman who celebrates life.
You have an adventurous aesthetic. You enjoy beautiful art, beautiful things, beautiful places.
You are sensitive and thoughtful. You enjoy conversation
Drop me a note, let's meet for a coffee and see if there is any chemistry
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Plettenberg Bay, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
64 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
190cm (6' 2.8") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Ask me later | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Wealthy |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Western Cape; Eastern Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 58 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Chinese; Danish; Dutch; English; Filipino / Tagalog; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Hebrew; Hindi; Italian; Japanese; Korean; Malay; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Romanian; Russian; Spanish; Tamil; Turkish | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox; Sikh | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; Partnered; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Student; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Agriculture; Political | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Long; Well-behaved; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Something my (grand)mother made me. |
Favourite Colour: |
Pink |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Athletics; Birdwatching; Canoeing; Cycling; Hiking; Running; Sailing; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Surf skiing/kayaking; Walking; Weight training; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in an open relationship |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |
