In His Own Words
About Him
I am in a committed relationship. We are a professional couple and have been together for 7 years.
My partner is currently on secondment in the UK until 2016, but we are both happy to play alone and do so with the other's full knowledge and support.
I love experimenting and also indulge in some B&D play from time to time. However, I am not a BDSM lifestyler - it is just a bit of erotic play and I can indulge or leave it. No big deal.
Love the good things in life: good food, wine/whisky/champagne, a joint, the theatre, I have a very eclectic taste in music: from Rammstein, to opera and classical, to jazz, Leonard Cohen, Hendrix, Sinatra, ZZ Top, etc and movies (from the classics to cult to current). Have a lovely selection of good dirty movies (:-o! shock! horror!) Some of the old classic porn movies, like Deep Throat, Last Tango in Paris, Caligula and then some really excellent arty modern ones Also many classic movies, like Murder on the Orient Express, a Fellini or two, Dietrich's Blue Angel, Easy Rider, etc, etc.
Absolutely love travelling, both locally and overseas.
Love watching sport and am an avid Bulls (firstly) and Sharks (secondly) supporter. I still participate actively in Masters swimming and have participated in 2 World Masters championships in recent years and have competed in 14 Midmar Miles as well.
I am an advanced scuba diver and have dived the wrecks of the southern Red Sea, the stunning reefs along our coast and Mozambique and Malaysia.
Photos are essential before even considering a meeting or further contact. If you are unable to post photos on this site, because you are being naughty (and hopefully you are!), then these can be sent to my private mail address which I will supply when appropriate in terms of the site rules. If you have "private" photos on your profile, kindly remember to open these for me when contacting me.
The only restrictions on my time are those of work (only to some extent) and my dogs.
About His Ideal Match
You are looking for that little frisson which you aren't experiencing at the moment. You may or may not have your current partner's consent to indulge your fantasies, which consent is preferable, but that is entirely up to you if you don't!
Don't think I need to expand any more. Hopefully my previous description and the other criteria set on this profile will be sufficient.
Please note that this is for NSA fun and friendship only - it is a completely honest and open approach with no intention of misleading anyone.
But, not looking only for a one-night-stand either!
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Howick (Currys Post), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
67 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Atheist | |
Relationship Status: |
Ask me later | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Regular Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Midlands (KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; White; Other | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Coloured; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Arabic; Chinese; Danish; Dutch; English; Filipino / Tagalog; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Hebrew; Hindi; Italian; Japanese; Korean; Malay; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Romanian; Russian; Spanish; Swedish; Tamil; Turkish; Urdu | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Student; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Other; Agriculture | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
More piercings; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party Behaviour: |
An exhibitionist |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Outgoing; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Folk; Heavy Metal; Jazz; Opera; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Business news; Healthy living; Investing; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
American Football; Athletics; Cricket; Rugby; Running; Sailing; Scuba diving; Swimming; Triathlon; Water Polo |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Socially |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in an open relationship |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Honesty: |
Extremely |