In Her Own Words
About Her
Life is really simple, why insist on making it complicated? When reading captures your interest you will find a hint on how to get in touch via text. I'm a considerate tolerant and tolerable(I think) lady who loves to explore the world and also enjoys the simple pleasures of life. Loving caring lady who have bags of compassion.
I am grateful for all my "teachers" who have taught me WELL learnt life lessons. Things turn out best if I make the best out of the way things turn out.
Beautiful and sexy is how I feel from the inside and it reflects in my eyes. Life is all about choices.
We choose to be who we are. Let's be friends and see where it leads to... Snail pace is best.
I choose to know and accept your dark side but I cannot change who & what you are as change is a personal choice that comes from within.
Dating a man's reality is better than dating his potential, that way nobody (including myself) could be disappointed. Love, trust and respect should be polarity in any relationship. A person's perspective can change experiences into stepping stones. Yes, I am a strong person but I also appreciate somebody to take my hand and say:"Everything is going to be okay"
I am not here to find a perfect person, I prefer a real person. Being patient will allow me to know the real person. Although I am a permanent resident in Patience (my exclusive country); dishonesty, hidden agendas and false pretences chanllenge my patience.
Even with life's ups and downs I never take a day for granted. I always try to see the blessings regardless of how difficult or tough situations are. What others think of me is none of my business. "Carpe diem, quam minimum credula postero"
About Her Ideal Match
Ideal match? Whew!! What a brain teaser. If I have to analyze my ideal match logically, I feel it's unfair to dictate what a person should be like. I once read that "A real person is not perfect and a perfect person is not real." I must admit, that phrase has changed my perception/outlook in life. Everybody has to encounter "storms" in their lives and I believe that the "storms" makes you a better person at the end it. So... Strive to be the real person
It is advisable to be the person you are, determined by you inner being. As human beings we easily fall for false impressions and I suppose that may lead to lopsided perceptions and infatuation, that in turn could lead to resentment.
If you want clarity, please ask and don't assume (we know who Assumption's mother is. hahaha) unless you want to obtain a PhD effective immediately. So .. keep it real.
Chemistry is important yet futile in the absence of companionship, communication, trust, integrity and respect. Chemistry only, can never sustain a healthy balanced relationship with family, friends or partners
A true gentleman who knows how to treat a lady would be appreciated. Do you have sense of homour? Ah well, that is no requirement Selflove is vital in one's life and relationships. Can you spend time with yourself and the special person in your life? Remember, we are not here to change anybody.
Think we could be friends?....[removed]
Who knows...might turn out to be different...maybe there is prospect...one cannot comment on that until proven otherwise.
What next? Camera, Hollywood, cinema, Publisher, exclusive book stores. What is the title again? Hahahaha
Who know's? Who writes your story? I know, it's definitely not me and that is a fact. Believe in yourself and know that everything happens for a reason. Be a NIKE, just do it
What Her Friends Say
JulesCS hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
55 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
164cm (5' 4.6") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home Language: |
Other | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
43 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Italian; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Romanian; Russian; Spanish; Swedish; Turkish | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Dutch; English; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Italian; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Romanian; Russian; Spanish; Swedish; Turkish | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Business; Fiction; Non-fiction; Religious; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Investing; Meditation; Reading; Singing; Yoga |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Athletics; Bungee jumping; Chess; Cycling; Field Hockey; Flying / Gliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Scuba diving; Sky diving; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; German; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |