In Her Own Words
About Her
I love life and like to enjoy it on the surface but also think deeply about things and to have intelligent conversations about the meaning of life, the universe.
Have a passion for nature and the mysteries of life. Not so much into mainstream ideas (sport, tv, status, celebrityism, consumerism etc). More intruiged by the alternative side to life (living sustainably, in harmony with nature, a better life for all beings, finding beauty in all things, art, music, poetry, fantasy and cosmic connections.
Love a variery of music, depending on my mood, it feeds my soul. Love outdoor music festivals, dancing, freedom of expression.
Adventure excites me, so love to travel, seeing new places and meeting new and interesting people. Have travelled the world which has really expanded my horizens and how i view life and other people.
I try to be conscious about my imprint on the planet and to use my energy in a positive way, so try to do everything with awareness and to be a more compassionate person.
Not into any one religion, though I would say I am spiritual, and into the meta-physical side of life. Im interested in many aspects of this like the fact that science is starting to suggest what mystics in India said 2000 years ago about the nature of reality...interesting.
Being creative makes me feel alive and my profession is freelance graphic design work, so love being creative with digital art, living on the intersection between technology and art with lots of space for nature and nuture.
Well thats a brief summary of my interests and passions, if you would like to know more, please ask.
About Her Ideal Match
Im looking for someone with whom I have a good connection with, on a physical, mental and spiritual level. Someone to have fun with, but also to be comfortable with and to talk to as a friend...ie - not interested in shallow relationships... Im looking for something deep and meaningful
People who know what they want in life, have direction and are passionate about something, I find attractive. An ldeal guy could perhaps be: considerate, fun-loving, honest, direct, confident and a sense of humour would be awesome...I don't ask for much do I ???
Anyways, the small details dont really matter, everyone has good qualities and is unique, the important thing is chemistry between people, not only on the physical level, mental and emotional chemistry are important too!
Im not on this site to have endless email chats, Id like to actually meet people in the flesh, so if you are only into writing to people and have no intention of meeting in person, then there is not much point in chatting in the first place.
Apologies in advance if I don't respond to your message, as I only have time to respond to people I think I may have a connection with.
Please do not contact me unless you have a viewable photo or a few photos (ideally), or have invited me to view you hidden photo.
Im not being shallow, physical attraction and the look in someones eye (window to the soul) is an important aspect to any attraction.
I look forward to meeting those who impress and vice versa ! :)
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Plettenberg Bay, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
48 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
162cm (5' 3.8") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Spanish | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Body Art: |
Navel ring |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Camping; Chess; Hiking; Horse Riding; Running; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Squash; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; German; Greek; Indian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Very Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City Dating: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
