In His Own Words
About Him
Why not? Nothing ventured nothing gained. It is not about what is or what was, but more about what could be.
Those who cannot tell what they desire or expect, still sigh and struggle with indefinite thoughts and vast wishes.
About His Ideal Match
It doesn't interest me what you do for a living.
I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.
It doesn't interest me how old you are.
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.
It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon.
I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shrivelled and closed from fear of further pain. I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it. I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.
It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true.
I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself, if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul, if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy. I want to know if you can see beauty, even when it's not pretty, every day, and if you can source your own life from its presence. I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge.
It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children.
It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand in the centre of the fire with me and not shrink back.
It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Centurion, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Dutch; English | |
Religion: |
Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Northern Gauteng (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
22 - 32 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Intelligent; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Silly; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Devotion; Friendliness; Honesty; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
A leather biker's jacket |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Latin; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I'm not keen |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Card games; Computer programming; Cooking; Meditation |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Badminton; Boxing; Chess; Cricket; Dancesport; Ice Skating; Martial arts; Pool; Rugby; Soccer; Tennis; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like them Well Done ;) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Thrill seeking |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
