About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
49 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
157cm (5' 1.8") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Portuguese | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 47 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
162cm (5' 3.8") - 201cm (6' 7.1") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; None (Bald); Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; German; Greek; Italian; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Russian; Spanish; Swedish | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Other | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In Her Own Words
About Her
I am a fun loving, sociable & energetic person. I LOVE a good party but also enjoy some quiet time to balance things out and recharge. I am totally addicted to scuba diving & photography, including underwater, so yes, instead of a bulky useless handbag, I carry a camera bag :). I have my own photography business and love doing fine art nudes and social and music gigs, although anything else is just as much fun. Tequila is my 3rd ;)
I am an honest, loving & giving person - love to spoil the right person. Independent and driven, giving my utmost to achieve things in life - I don't give up easily and welcome challenges.
I am far from a wet blanket - don't believe that couples should live in each others pockets. Personal space and time are very important in any relationship, as is mutual respect, love, trust and commitment. Respect, Love and Trust is allowing your partner to be the person that they want to be, have their own opinions, dreams and desires and understanding that everyone is different. Individuality adds to the excitement of any relationship - you never know what surprises they may have in store for you... But, at the end of it all, you know without a doubt that they are the only one for you - the one that you go home to and treasure all the little things and the times that you spend together.
I also believe that before we can love someone completely, we have to love ourselves - if you are not happy with who you are, how can you make someone else happy?
My pet hate is any form of abuse ... physical, emotional, psychological ... doesn't matter! We are all important in our own special ways, no matter how small. No one has the right to destroy anothers spirit or soul...
I also have a wild, crazy, daring side to me and there are still many things in life that I have not tried or missed out on - now is the time to catch up.
About Her Ideal Match
Well, if I have not scared you off yet with what has already been said, then you're almost what I want.
Not wanting to be very specific about my criteria, I do have some non-negotiables.
HONESTY!!!
A man who can communicate - and I mean vocally!! Not one who thinks communication is nodding or grunting while watching TV.
Someone who will respect my goals and support me (and no, I don't mean financially).
He will take the time to get to know ME as a person and although he may not like everything about me, he will appreciate my differences (and maybe even enjoy them). He will want to be seen with me and not be scared or embarrassed to show affection when his friends are around.
He should be self sufficient and not expect me to be his slave but rather offer to help me - a partnership is just that!!
Overall, just someone who knows what he wants, has some direction in his life and is willing to give and receive. Someone that I can share special moments with, have a good laugh (or cry) with, is flexible and tolerant and will not feel threatened by my family, friends and clients.
If you enjoy good music and live gigs/concerts/shows ... BONUS!!! cos I'll probably be dragging you along to a couple of those :). I run my own business and am involved with musos, actors, celebs etc so a sociable personality would be great!!
If you have "big man syndrome" and think that the world revolves around you and your ego ... move on! If you think the world has done you wrong and owes you something ... get over it! If you think putting people down is funny and makes you more macho then I'm not your woman ... try another profile! And if you're looking for a one night stand ... try an escort agency :). And lastly, if you're married/engaged/involved ..... don't even bother!!! I'm not interested in becoming your "skelm" and part-time illicit thrill.
Oh, one more thing ..... Guys, facial hair just doesn't do it for me - beard rash on my chin is REALLY painful and I prefer to do without it.
What Her Friends Say
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More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Realistic; Shy; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal; Latin; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Dramas; Music Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Gardening; Painting; Photography; Surfing the Internet; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Cricket; Dancesport; Extreme sports; Gymnastics; Horse Riding; Rock climbing; Rugby; Scuba diving; Sky diving; Snorkeling; Soccer; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; German; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've lost count |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s); Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
