In Her Own Words
About Her
Ugh…I could have done the nice, sexy, oulike, “I like walks on the beach”, short profile, but I didn’t 🤫 … dit voel of mens alles moet cover, just in case you mis something that could be that, uhmmm for someone. A CV of your soul 😂😂 and I can’t do the, “just ask, and I’ll tell”,what if you don’t ask? So sit back and get some popcorn, I made versions available 😂😂
Short version:
Not too full of nonsense for a woman, plat op die aarde, maar nie common nie, soek net iemand langer as ek, with a personality. Baie liefde om te gee, but a lot of opinions too, always open to a debate if we both in the mood. On the look out for a friend, a companion, someone to share the crazy with, an add-on not someone to complete me. I may feel the need to explain myself, as the quick profile things, can be very one dimensional. So now this app turned me into a oversharing, babbling idiot 🫣
Long version (you don’t need to keep reading):
I'm a corporate professional.Relaxed, with a bit of overthinking (don’t all woman) however the thinking is logical, I promise.
Just as comfortable in heels, as flip flops, down to earth, braai and a beer (en n braai broodjie), but enjoy a good red, in a nice restaurant
The just of it, no drama, LOYAL to a fault, dark sense of humor, silly, sarcastic a bit Rock & Roll, sensual, homely, a bit creative, a bit ADHD, but also OCD, love plants and gardening, and a small collector of antiques, somewhat of an old soul, but looking forward to the future. All…well most music moves me, but no afrikaans common “my hart klop chocolates” k@k!
Some things will always be, black and white for me, and I think it’s important to know what you want and more so, what you don’t want.
Raised with good morals and values and I expect the same. Open to new experiences, learning, growing, understanding.
I’m very upfront, and no one has time for BS,
Ek is nie so vol k@k soos ek klink nie, weet net wat ek soek, en op ons ouderdom moet jy ok.
About Her Ideal Match
…Well a pulse, and a personality would be nice. The latter being first option 🤭😏
Again, Short version:
No skeletons, baggage is fine, we all have that, as long as it’s neatly packet in the corner and travel bag size 😉 Not looking for anyone that needs their lives filled, or need a partner to complete them. Someone taller then me🙄 , understanding, open minded, but have opinions and willing to discuss, conversation must flow with no topic out of bounds. I may not be your equal in all things but you won’t be mine, so we learn, and be willing too grow.
Long version:
Someone wiling to grow and be open to new experiences, yes set in some ways, in regards to standards, of integrity and morals. However stagnation is stifling and I can’t stand doomsday and Stone Age thinking.
However, A MAN, should be a MAN and handle himself in that way, in EVERY sense of the word. YOU SUPPOSE TO HOLD ME DOWN, NOT HOLD ME BACK 😏
Activities to share are inconsequential as you share what’s important to you and for your partner. And if you off for the day to go play golf , enjoy, we don’t need to be together 24/7
I do have a few deal breakers, height, (at least 1.8) not looking after yourself, personal cleanliness, cheating, drugs (and I don’t mean an occasional ‘smoke’ now and again if that's your thing, I’m not a prude) and not being financial secure, I am okay and have enough myself, not looking after anyones unsuccessful, lazy ass. Apologies Sounds very rude, but let me not pretend.
So if you made it this far and have cracked at least one giggle, hou op like en favor en message my, what the worst that could happen….
You may be my person en Ek is dalk joune 😊
Disclaimer: 🫣🫣 sorry tried to cover all bases
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Midrand, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
42 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | |
Religion: |
Atheist | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Ask me later | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Centurion; Pretoria; Edenvale; Midrand; Randburg; Roodepoort; Sandton; Johannesburg (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
38 - 48 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight; Curly; Wild; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Moody; Optimistic; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Knitting; Meditation; Painting; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Shopping; Woodworking; Yoga |
Sports: |
Archery; Athletics; Birdwatching; Camping; Cricket; Darts; Extreme sports; Fencing; Fishing; Hiking; Horse Riding; Hunting; Martial arts; Mountain biking; Pool; Rock climbing; Running; Skateboarding; Snooker |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Doing absolutely nothing |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I don't have any family |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
