In His Own Words
About Him
I’m a photographer and programmer with a passion for developing portals in the educational and commercial industries.
I come from a family of artists; my father was the talented (but unknown) artist behind the design and construction of the murals on the outside of the Cape Town station building. (One or two of his art pieces are in my gallery.)
I had a fabulous childhood. My parents were married for 68 years, and we were four children in the family. My parents lived long and fulfilling lives, reaching the ages of 89 and 94, respectively.
My father was my greatest educator, teaching me about life, people, and history for as long as I can remember. My mother was an amazing woman who had the patience and strength to put up with my father for 68 years. I have one sister still with me, while my other two siblings, identical twins, have passed away.
I grew up and went to school in Alberton and later in Plettenberg Bay. I’ve mostly worked in the computer industry, except for two interesting detours: one year as a speed cop and another year building kitchen cupboards.
While I do enjoy smoking, I keep it to about two a day these days. I’m 420 friendly, and it truly helps unleash my creativity like a tidal wave!
About His Ideal Match
Hi there! I'm here looking for genuine friendships to connect, share experiences, and enjoy life together. Let’s explore new adventures and create lasting memories. Excited to meet like-minded people!
Now... did you actually believe that? Really? I don’t think anyone truly knows what they want until they meet someone in real life. I’ve read some profiles here, and honestly, I cringe at a few.
Let’s be real for a second. When you write, 'Dream night? Cozy fire, good company, and a shared glass of wine,' but you don’t even own a fireplace... well, that’s a bit misleading, isn’t it? Unless your idea of a cozy fire is a scented candle and the Netflix fireplace loop, maybe it’s time to rethink that description.
Religion : I have the utmost respect for all religions, but I have no interest in engaging with religious zealots or spending time in such discussions. If you claim to be "in a relationship" with "God," kindly steer clear of me. I wish you and God all the happiness!
I measure people by their common sense, common decency, and common courtesy.
So, aside from my aversion to religion, I’m open to communication with anyone, regardless of age, size, or intellectual beliefs.
While reading this, you might think that I am smug, opinionated, self-righteous, or maybe even arrogant. Actually, what I am is pretty sure about what I want and don’t want.
Feel free to connect with me here!
Ps... I am currently also a part time carer for an elderly lady, which keeps me from having a normal dating-type relationship. So, I am here more for friends and intellectual conversations. And whatever develops from that.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Helderberg (Gordons Bay), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
178cm (5' 10.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
White | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Atheist | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Struggling |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro; West Coast; Winelands; Overberg; Swartland (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 90 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The genitals |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I hate it |
Books: |
History; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Game shows; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Computer programming; Gardening; Painting; Photography; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at Work: |
I should have a bed in my office |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City Dating: |
Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |