In Her Own Words
About Her
I'm most grateful for the small moments in life that bring joy and connection. The ability to have stimulating conversations about everything under the sun.
Sharing laughs, warm cups of coffee on cold mornings, taking long walks together, long and aimless Sunday afternoon drives to nowhere and ending the day with a glass of bubbly.
I destress by incorporating an hour's jog or gym session at least 3 to 4 days in my work week.
I value kindness, sincerity, intelligence and most importantly emotional intelligence in people. This all might sound perfect to someone but I'm certainly by no means perfect.
I'm intolerant of cheaters and close mindedness and in the kitchen I'm only good at keeping it spotlessly clean. I tend to be quite verbose sometimes😇 yet I'm also a sensual and graceful lady with a wicked sense of humour when inspired.
About Her Ideal Match
I'd fall for you if you are kind, thoughtful, non-judgemental, can hold a scintillating conversation and make a mean cup of coffee as well as having similar qualities and hobbies as mentioned about myself.
Top it all off by being an easygoing gentleman, a lover of humanity, sexy, adventurous with loads of emotional intelligence and the ability to be silly.
Should you also happen to enjoy cooking...honey let's just get married already🥰
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
45 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
154cm (5' 0.6") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Tswana | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; German; Sepedi; Sesotho | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Government | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Africa; Canada; United States; Germany; United Kingdom; Australia | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Taurus; Virgo; Scorpio; Capricorn; Pisces | ||
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Black; Greying; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Muslim; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Executive / Management; Food Services; Legal; Government; Sales and Marketing; Technical / Science / Engineering; Agriculture; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
A wicked satin teddy |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fiction; History; Romance; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Dramas; News; Reality shows; Soap operas; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Singing; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Athletics; Bowling; Dancesport; Hiking; Running; Soccer; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Italian; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Fire the boss |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |
