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The1stLady

45 – Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa

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The1stLady

45 – Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa

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In Her Own Words

About Her

I'm most grateful for the small moments in life that bring joy and connection. The ability to have stimulating conversations about everything under the sun.

Sharing laughs, warm cups of coffee on cold mornings, taking long walks together, long and aimless Sunday afternoon drives to nowhere and ending the day with a glass of bubbly.

I destress by incorporating an hour's jog or gym session at least 3 to 4 days in my work week.

I value kindness, sincerity, intelligence and most importantly emotional intelligence in people. This all might sound perfect to someone but I'm certainly by no means perfect.

I'm intolerant of cheaters and close mindedness and in the kitchen I'm only good at keeping it spotlessly clean. I tend to be quite verbose sometimes😇 yet I'm also a sensual and graceful lady with a wicked sense of humour when inspired.

About Her Ideal Match

I'd fall for you if you are kind, thoughtful, non-judgemental, can hold a scintillating conversation and make a mean cup of coffee as well as having similar qualities and hobbies as mentioned about myself.

Top it all off by being an easygoing gentleman, a lover of humanity, sexy, adventurous with loads of emotional intelligence and the ability to be silly.

Should you also happen to enjoy cooking...honey let's just get married already🥰

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About Her

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age:
45
Star Sign:
Capricorn
Height:
154cm (5' 0.6")
Body Type:
Athletic
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Black
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
Black/African
Home Language:
Tswana
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; German; Sepedi; Sesotho
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Government
Income:
Solvent

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Africa; Canada; United States; Germany; United Kingdom; Australia
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
40 - 60
Star Sign:
Taurus; Virgo; Scorpio; Capricorn; Pisces
Height:
165cm (5' 5.0") - 180cm (5' 10.9")
Body Type:
Average; Athletic; Stocky
Looks:
Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Black; Greying; Shaved
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
English
Religion:
Agnostic; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Muslim; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Occasional; E-cigarette User
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial; Executive / Management; Food Services; Legal; Government; Sales and Marketing; Technical / Science / Engineering; Agriculture; Health / Social Care
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
It has its moods
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
A tattoo or two
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion Sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite Clothing:
A wicked satin teddy
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Blues; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; World
Reading:
I love it
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fiction; History; Romance; Self-help
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
TV Shows:
Documentaries; Dramas; News; Reality shows; Soap operas; Sport; Talk shows
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie Preferences:
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; War
Interests:
Board games; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Singing; Yoga
Sport Involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Aerobics; Athletics; Bowling; Dancesport; Hiking; Running; Soccer; Table Tennis; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I cook rather than starve
Food:
Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Italian; South African; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Visiting a museum or gallery
Time Online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got sisters
Family Closeness:
We're average
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Wealth
Turn-offs:
Thrill seeking
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Fire the boss
Religious Attendance:
I'm non-practicing
Dream Home:
Cottage in the country
Politics:
Moderate
Retirement Plans:
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City Dating:
Hopeful
Honesty:
Very