In Her Own Words
About Her
The fire crackles softly, shadows flicker. Above, the stars remind me how small yet infinite we are. This is where I find peace—in the quiet, under the sky’s vast embrace.
I live by simple truths. Show up, from moment to moment, do your best; the rest is not up to you. My joy isn’t in what I can gain, but in what I can give. Kindness. Connection. Moments that leave a mark on hearts and minds.
At 1,72m tall, I walk through life with quiet strength and a love for an active, healthy lifestyle. I’m independent, self-employed, and self-contained. I’m also in the process of reclaiming my health after an ischemic stroke—a journey that’s teaching me the value of resilience and grace. My kids are grown, independent, and all my exes are exactly where they belong: in the past.
In this season of life, I’m focused on legacy—not in things, but in feelings, memories, and meaning. I want to live every minute in technicolour, savouring the richness of what’s here and now. The past has taught me, but it doesn’t define me. The future calls, but my joy is in the present.
The greatest gift you can give your future partner, is the work you do on yourself. Happiness is an inside job. Love deeply, laugh often, and let go of what doesn’t nourish you. I prefer the glow of a fire and the sparkle of starlight to the noise of the world. It’s in these quiet, meaningful spaces that life feels most vivid.
I am simply someone who seeks to live fully, love fiercely, and leave this world just a little better than I found it. After all: "The greatest thing you'll ever learn, is just to love, and be loved in return."
#nofilters
About Her Ideal Match
Strong, yet gentle. Confident, but never arrogant. A man who sees strength in a woman not as a threat but as a spark—something that excites him, inspires him. His integrity is his compass, evident in how he treats people, how he earns his money, and how he lives each day.
He’s left the hard-partying lifestyle behind. Substance abuse isn’t part of his story, and his exes are right where they should be—in the past. He’s taken the time to heal, to grow, and to truly find himself. Old-school values run deep in him. He’s a man’s man—masculine, practical, intelligent—a mix of jock and nerd, the kind of balance that feels like the full package.
He takes pride in his appearance but doesn’t fall into vanity. He values authenticity in a world that’s too often wrapped in pretense, where people cling to youth by plasticizing themselves. He lives in truth, with an unshakable sense of self.
This man is ready. Ready to show up with a whole heart, as if he has never been hurt before. He knows there’s no room for pretending, no point in trying to be someone he’s not. His photos are recent; his intentions are honest. He’s here to meet life—and love—with sincerity, strength, and depth.
If this sounds like you, then perhaps we’re ready to write the next chapter under starlit skies.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Centurion, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
55 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 56 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Disabilities: |
I have a chronic illness |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Intelligent; Optimistic; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Books: |
Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Dramas |
Movie Preferences: |
Documentary; Drama; Mystery |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Writing books |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; German; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Diabetic; Gluten-free; Lactose-free; Sugar-free; Carb-free |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
