In His Own Words
About Him
Ever wondered what it’s like to meet a man who doesn’t try to impress you... he just is?
The kind who speaks softly but carries a presence that fills the space without effort. He’s grounded, a mix of calm certainty and quiet mischief. There’s a flash of intelligence in his eyes, a streak of sarcasm that catches you off guard, and a steadiness that makes everything around him slow down just enough to notice.
He’s not chasing attention - he’s observing, weighing, understanding. He’s lived enough to know what matters and what doesn’t, and he moves through life with the kind of confidence that doesn’t need validation. But if you’re curious enough to lean in, you’ll find there’s depth, humour, and a quiet fire that keeps surprising you long after the first conversation.
He’s also the man who disappears for a weekend with a rooftop tent, a full tank, and a rough idea of a dirt road he hasn’t explored yet. Overlanding, gravel roads, stars instead of streetlights – that’s where he resets. He prefers campfire conversations to bar noise, and would rather share a sunrise on the edge of nowhere than a selfie from a crowded mall.
If the idea of throwing a bag in the back, leaving the city behind, and not knowing exactly where you’ll end up makes your heart beat a little faster… you’ll understand his world. And if you’re the kind of woman who’s tempted to say, “So… when’s the next trip?” — he’ll probably smile, tilt his head, and tell you to clear a weekend.
About His Ideal Match
She’s the kind of woman who doesn’t rush to fill a silence... she’s at ease in it. There’s a steadiness in her, the kind that comes from knowing who she is, not from needing to prove it. She laughs easily, sometimes at the wrong moments, and somehow that just makes it better.
Her curiosity runs deep - quiet, constant - and her questions have a way of making you pause, not because she’s testing you, but because she genuinely wants to understand. She can handle a bit of unpredictability, finds peace magnetic, and carries that spark that can turn an ordinary day into something unforgettable.
She doesn’t follow the crowd - she follows what feels real. And when she looks at you, you get the sense she already sees more than you’ve said.
She’s also the woman who doesn’t panic when the road turns to gravel and the signal drops. Give her a backpack, an open map, and the promise of a dirt road that leads “somewhere out there,” and she’s in. She’s just as happy with hair messed up by the wind, dust on her boots, and coffee from a flask as some people are with candles and room service.
She can fall asleep under a sky full of stars, wake up to first light over an empty horizon, and call that a perfect weekend. She doesn’t need a five-year plan for every trip – just good company, a rough direction, and the freedom to say, “Let’s see where this goes.” And if the idea of climbing into a 4x4, disappearing for a while, and sharing the kind of conversations that only happen next to a fire feels like home to her… then she’ll understand his world long before the engine even starts.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Hopetown (Vanderkloof), Northern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Green | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Realistic; Sarcastic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; History; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Photography; Sewing; Woodworking; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Fishing; Hiking; Inline / Roller skating; Mountain biking; Shooting; Walking; Weight training; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Greek; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Eco home in the bush |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City Dating: |
Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |