In Her Own Words
About Her
A place where we can automate mates?.. who knows
I am who i am & expect the same from others.
I like making new friends & seeing where that goes. No expectations are a good way to begin.
My apologies of you read my bio previously and the update seems contradictory, but much time has passed since I came here, adding all sorts of experiences and my attitude and expectations have changed quite alot.
Why should you get to know me ~ well why not? I am very easy to get along with and I believe I am pretty good company. I am not looking for a few messages and a meet immediately, I am still fixing many things from a previous nightmare, one which cost me absolutely everything, making my life rather complicated and sometimes alot to take in, but I like to think it has just given me a broader view on life and deffinately don't wallow in what is on the past.
Let's chat and see what transpires. Remember when we were young and see hadn't entered our lives yet, girls and boys were best friends, without a care in the world, I'd love it if I can find someone to be that way with again, just saying
About Her Ideal Match
Although I am extremely optimistic about life on general, at my age finding a perfectly chiseled man, with manners that will make my grandmother start planning a wedding, a bank account with a genie in and have a completely normal life, where I can just slot in and we love happily ever after, I think is too ambitious.
Listing what it is I want is futile, I am female, we want everything ;) but a list of what I do not want, I think I can handle.
I do not care to be "impressed" and am not superficial at all. Obviously of you're living with your mom because you're a freeloader and she does everything for you, I'd rather not entertain conversation buy your finances and employment actually don't matter to me at all. O do jot want to have to ask that you mind your manners and don't get familiar over the Internet. I am extremely prude when it comes to this and o do jot discuss anything like that with anyone, other than my partners. if you're hoping for a definite relationship or meeting up, I'm probably not the one you want to put time into. You need to be open minded and ask rather than overthink. You must be able to handle total honesty and please don't put me in a box because of what all has gone on in my life, I honestly don't fit any mould. Please don't demand my attention the minute you make contact or at all hours of the day, other than that just be nice and be yourself. The rest will all fall into place as it needs to.
I am not nearly as serious as I think I am sounding and once boundaries have been established I will ease up.
Hope this helps ;)
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
43 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
171cm (5' 7.3") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Sales and Marketing | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
33 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Black; Greying; Grey; None (Bald) | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Green; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Navel ring; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My swimming trunks / bikini |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; New Age; Punk; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Horror; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Horror; Independent |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Computer programming; Cooking; Making Music; Photography; Reading; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Baseball; Bungee jumping; Camping; Extreme sports; Flying / Gliding; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Ice Skating; Inline / Roller skating; Martial arts; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Pool; Rock climbing; Sailing; Shooting; Skiing; Sky diving; Snorkeling; Snowboarding; Surf skiing/kayaking; Surfing; Swimming; Walking; Water skiing; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; German; Greek; Italian; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Power; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Loft in the city |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
