In Her Own Words
About Her
I am very easy going, i don't expect anything other than real life, either we gel or we don't.
I do miss the old days, where we would meet people the "normal" way & things either did or didn't progress. I find the mere thought of even being here as pressure to see results, but this is me playing salmon, as you will see I tend to do frequently. Remember when we were just kids, before we noticed if we were a boy or girl, thats the way to get to know someone.
I have extremely firm principles & if old fashioned manners are not your thing, please swipe away this is not that sort of place & I am not that girl.
At my age, expecting to find the perfectly chiseled man, with manners my grandmother would approve of, with no issues is ridiculous, what I would like however is to find someone real.
My life story is not your everyday one but it's mine. I don't like judgemental, presumptuous, ungrateful, spoiled, narrow minded or cold people. I am & always will be the one who looks past the chaos & sees the human. I do not like conflict & always find a happy medium, but when faced with a situation that requires a fight, I could scare you off completely.
I don't do girly easily & I have a competitive side with men, as if I am fighting the fight for every girl who lived. I am not iffy & I sort myself out, generally making a macgyver move, without trying to be hardcore. I must find a guy who is secure enough to let me be me, knowing that I am loyal to the core & being friendly with men is never going to be an issue.
No 2 human beings can be exactly perfect to the other & I want to find that person, whom I can be completely at home with. I am pretty intense & if I feel something I am very open about it. I like meaningful gestures & moments, but am not over the top. I guess I can narrow this down fast - I am the girl your mates wish they had but when it's just us, I am really all girl, minus the crazy, jealous, clingy, overbearing, sensitive bits.
About Her Ideal Match
Someone who appreciates the little things! one day you may look back & see they were big things!
Mmm ok, applicants should meet the following requirements;
An 8 pack & a healthy taste for working up a sweat without living on boiled chicken & protein shakes.
A high paying job & a generosity like Micheal Jackson with that mac' kid ;)
A helicopter, yacht, catamaran, kite boarding shop -supplies & hunky helpful staff*, halfpipe & mx track ready at all times.
*your staff have been instructed to wait on me hand & foot at all times & no request is too outrageous!!
Please have the most amazing ex wife or girlfriends, who meet me & were immediately best friends. They are super supportive of our relationship & know exactly how to make our lives better! They should, love baking me brownies & really mean it when they tell me how fab & happy I am looking.
What else...
Please no history or mental illness, substance abuse, adultery or white collar crime in you immediate family.
Must be sensitive enough to write me an entire song but not be over oversensitive & want to live in my handbag 24/7! (kinda serious here)
Jokes aside ~ I really don't know if we know exactly what we want, what we don't want deffinately but I think what we are looking for changes from person to person & we can't expect to place an order to match.
I think there is too much space here to be very frank, ask a woman what she wants & expect it all to be consistent - not possible!
In closing, if I made some sense & you would like to get to know someone very unique, get in touch.
We make no promises & have no pre-defined expectations, let's see where the wind blows us.
Heads up*
I am sticking to free subs for now to see how it goes, so expect only one liners & your details will only show on the 3Rd email, should you message me, just so you know what's up there.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
43 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; German | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Current University / College Student | |
Occupation: |
Sales and Marketing | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
38 - 56 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") - 179cm (5' 10.5") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Grey; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; German | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; German | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Body Art: |
Navel ring; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic; Silly; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My swimming trunks / bikini |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Punk; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Horror; Mystery; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Motoring; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Making Music; Painting; Photography; Sculpting; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Bungee jumping; Camping; Dancesport; Extreme sports; Fencing; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Hockey; Ice Skating; Inline / Roller skating; Martial arts; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Pool; Rock climbing; Sailing; Scuba diving; Skiing; Snooker; Snorkeling; Snowboarding; Soccer; Surf skiing/kayaking; Surfing; Swimming; Water skiing; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; German; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Doing absolutely nothing |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Long hair |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Loft in the city |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
