In His Own Words
About Him
After visits 2 this site, loneliness & need 4 company are plain:
2 all on the site: As a man from utmost situations searching 4 balances in my life and wanting to be loved again, I found a common need 2 be recycled back in2 life.
2 all on this site -: Naive dreams 2 find a partner will not bring you perfect love. If u had a bad event with a previous partner this message is 2 u all: After years in an up &down relationship, I could not explain the cringe that came about whenever I wanted 2 b loved. In my garden 1 day, a still voice said: "get up & go 2 this place". I went. A lesson of wisdom followed. I was alone. I heard footsteps from the corridor & a man walked & talked about his marriage. In the past I battled 2 deal with my- ex wife's brutal rape. I never understood her trauma. I started 2 relate my wife's story. He was distressed, telling me that his wife had been sexually abused as well 4 years. I was shocked. He walked away. I prayed:-"God grant me wisdom 2 help us understand the trauma of our wives rape." Today, I counsel broken women!
About His Ideal Match
A thought dropped in2 my mind. I asked the barman 4 a clean piece of paper! My friend returned. I took the piece of paper & a simple demo followed by explaining how pure & innocent we came in 2 life. I told him God created us all. We are born, named & raised in2 all kinds of things in life learning discipline,& whatever was thrown at us. Dealing with it in different ways eventually as adults. I crushed the clean piece of paper & threw it on the counter. I asked him 2 pick it up, unravel it. I asked: “Does this piece of paper look like the original & if I took a hot iron, would I be able 2 iron out the wrinkles? “No”, he replied: I replied “however much we tried 2 iron out the wrinkles, we would never be able 2 repair the damage 2 our wives’ souls, from hurts inflicted upon them.. I asked him 2 repeat the same demo 2 his wife & at the end, just say. "I understand." Weeks later we met again. He searched 4 me." I did what u asked.” She burst out & cried.. Bitterness came out of this soul. He thanked me. I received insight in2 hurt-souls that had caused this trauma 2 other human beings. His marriage was restored. Agony & torment had gone. At this point, dear unknown men & women: Whatever ur reasons 4 being on this site R: repeat the demo herein 2 whomsoever u meet or to urself. My prayer 4 u is that ur time 2 become whole again has arrived.. Blessings. RestoredMan
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Vanderbijlpark (SW1), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
72 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Ask me later | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 52 | ||
Star Sign: |
Libra; Pisces | ||
Height: |
162cm (5' 3.8") - 174cm (5' 8.5") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often | ||
Eye Colour: |
Black; Blue; Brown | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any; Afrikaans; English; Italian; Spanish; Swedish | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Well-behaved; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
None |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; History; Non-fiction; Religious; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Computer programming; Cooking; Investing; Making Music; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Archery; Baseball; Birdwatching; Camping; Chess; Cricket; Golf; Pool; Rugby; Sailing; Soccer; Swimming; Table Tennis; Water Polo |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I should have a bed in my office |
Pastimes of choice: |
Playing with my pet |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
