In His Own Words
About Him
Hello.. again...
back in my 40s... dating.... what a landscape... Just as i thought i had it all figured out, here i am single again...oh wait.. divorced is the term... or is the correct term co-parenting??
Dating in this day and age, i thought that would be my kids... now me and eldest are both testing the waters... I did not envision going on a double date with my son... but yet, here i am...
Apologies beforehand, i do not understand half the terms currently used...
so here goes... Father of 3... sometimes financially stable, depending on which day of the month u asking... and whether my kids twisted my arm for something or the other... working from home... looking to relocate, need a bit more space...
handyman... i can read instructions... not scared of the outdoorsy stuff, but a garden is also outdoors per my definition...
not a big risk taker, not living on the edge... but if u want someone to hold your hand to the edge, i can do that... will meet u when u come back... and tell you how great u are... my kids make me do all sort of things i never would have dreamt of.. I need someone who will be willing to do the same... case in point, we have a snake as a pet... thats all i know..
Personally, i play tennis (i make time) and basketball (when i find time)... also some online gaming (im 40 not dead). Recently bought a 4x4, so wold like to explore that side of life at some point... when the petrol price drops ;)
About His Ideal Match
She knows what she wants out of life... She knows how to laugh,even at herself sometimes, & she knows how to make me laugh. Loyal, truthful, with a dark side to keep me guessing...
...u cant exactly put a face on love....
Ps. i wrote the above in my late 20s... damn... i found that, but that damn dark side... dammit...
Now i'm mid 40s... i just need company... grown up conversation, with some silliness along the way... a woman that respects her time and my own... someone that will be willing to bring her baggage and put it next to mine and say, lets go camping... coz lets be real... we all have baggage in one way or the other...
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs (Parow), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
None (Bald) | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Coloured | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
33 - 43 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 171cm (5' 7.3") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Healthy living; Investing; Photography; Reading; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Basketball; Cricket; Motorsport; Pool; Rugby; Soccer; Tennis; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s); Reptile(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Honesty: |
Extremely |