In His Own Words
About Him
A little about myself: I'm a very confident, independent, loving and easy-going guy with a great sense of humor. Most importantly, Christ is Lord of my life, so I will not allow anyone or anything to take over that position. I'm hard-working and very passionate about my work, but when I relax after a day on the job, I prefer a quiet night in with some nice music, good food and the occasional glass of red wine.
Although it's my end goal to find Miss Amazing, right now, I'm not looking anything serious; just want meet new people to befriend. Depending on how things develop I'll decide whether I'm open for something more and we can take it from there. That being said, I love being romantic with that special girl and I was told that I'm a great kisser (you'll have to be the judge of that ;) ).
Now, if any of what you have just read sounds like the type of guy you want to know, don't hesitate - drop me a line! Don't be shy. I don't bite. At least, not very hard. :*
About His Ideal Match
This is going to sound weird to 95% of you ladies, but here goes anyway: I find it extremely sexy if a woman likes to wear high heel stiletto sandals. So, if that describes you, (or if you have a slight case of shoe addiction), you have single-handedly bankrupted me of brownie points!
It would be great meeting someone whom I can love, take care of... and spoil. Nothing gives me greater joy than doing something for the woman I love and seeing her reaction.
Until the above happens, I just want to meet women from all the weird and wonderful walks of life, because friendship is the building block of a relationship. I don't believe there exists such a thing as a "perfect match", but here are some essentials things I like in a woman:
* Be the authentic you. "You were born an original. Don't die a cheap copy!"
* My love language is Physical Touch, so if you're a great kisser, romantic and you love to cuddle, that will definitely earn you extra brownie points.
The only definite non-negotiable characteristic I demand is honesty. Please say what you mean and mean what you say. And no chancers. I will not be a backup-option or a boy-on-the-side. If you cheat on your husband/boyfriend with me, there's a high probability you will cheat on me with someone else - and I won't have that.
The following qualities are very unattractive in a woman:
* Heavy smoking
* Masculinity
* Being addicted to drama
* Being confrontational and quarrelsome
* Having a lot of baggage from previous relationship(s)
* Being unable to communicate and expecting me to be a mind-reader.
* If you're a party girl who likes going out every weekend
And if you identify as a feminist, do not bother contacting me - you'll just be wasting your time and you will not receive a reply from me. Thank you!
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Lyttleton), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
42 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English; Sepedi | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Northern Gauteng (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
19 - 40 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Other | ||
Eye Colour: |
Black; Brown; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Dutch; English; French; German; Greek; Hebrew; Italian; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Russian; Spanish | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Straight; Well-behaved; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Facial Hair: |
None |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Pop / Top 40; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I'm not keen |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fantasy; Non-fiction; Religious; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Sport; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Making Music; Photography; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Baseball; Camping; Chess; Cricket; Gymnastics; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Running; Shooting; Squash; Swimming; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
Less than once a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm seeing someone, but not exclusively |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Power; Thrill seeking |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
