In Her Own Words
About Her
Quiet adventure and serious fun, sincere and flipant intellectual who loves a good debate, dancing and movies, reading and music of all kinds, walking, tempered with lots of affection. Sound like a bundle of contradictions :) Not really - flexibility is all important to getting to know you and the mystery is usually intriguing:) Short and sweet but a chat will reveal more :)
About Her Ideal Match
Such a difficult question. Different people have different things that make them precious. When the balance is right then things work but what is that balance.
I may have a list of characteristics I perceive to be 'my kind of guy' but I have so often met people who don't fit that picture and have been so interesting and entertaining and have added so much to my life. Life's experiences always add to the intrigue and at this stage of our lives we have all accumulated lots of those.
So with that in mind the following list may - or may not :) be a guide to what I am supposedly looking for :)
Enquiring mind; sociable; enjoys dancing (gotta enjoy this but don't have to be good at it) and movies and some theatre along with some water sport and the easier hiking .. will progress to the challenges. Chatty - need to compete with me. Spontaneous & adventurous but happy to do the bungy jumping on his own. Enjoys animals - especially dogs, and some outdoors. Equally happy at home; away or dare I say in the garden or kitchen.
Core values such as integrity and respect for other's & their choices are very important to me. Sense of humour - imperative; sense of fun - can't do without it. Must love music.
Looking at the big picture :) The little things will fit in if the basics are there.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Southern Suburbs (Plumstead), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
69 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
164cm (5' 4.6") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
City Bowl; Southern Peninsula; Southern Suburbs (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
59 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
179cm (5' 10.5") - 188cm (6' 2.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Finance; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Shy |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Silver |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Jazz; Latin; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Business news; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Photography; Reading; Sewing; Shopping |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Athletics; Canoeing; Cricket; Dancesport; Golf; Gymnastics; Hiking; Rowing; Rugby; Sailing; Squash; Surf skiing/kayaking; Tennis; Walking; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; German; Greek; Italian; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Carb-free |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |