In His Own Words
About Him
These are crazy times. Covid has shut down much of our lives for six months. Now feels like the time to embrace Spring, to get out and about.
We need to be cautious, but let's embrace our opportunities. Let us live every moment to the full.
Instead of a coffee date, let's get into the open air. Perhaps a picnic. Or a sunset walk on the beach.
I am not looking for a hookup. I am seeking connection, a long term, conscious connection to an interesting, intelligent and attractive woman.
May I learn about you, to see and experience the real you. May we share our ideas and feelings. I would like to embrace the wonderful, passionate, exciting woman you are.
In turn, I would like to share the joy of my spirit, energy, optimism and virility. I would like to make you feel feminine and sexy.
I am a positive person, and energetic. Optimism takes work and energy. I have always been amazed at just how it transforms my life and relationships. Enthusiasm and optimism creates magic.
Would you describe yourself as sapiosexual. If an intellectual connection appeals, drop me a line.
My orientation is towards polyamory. For a quick introduction, may I suggest looking up polyamory on wikipedia.org. To learn more about how I see it, let's meet.
You will greatly enrich my life, and I hope to enrich your life.
Let us live the intensity of life - every meal a banquet, every night a honeymoon.
PS: A bit more about me: I keep fit with long walks and running.
I love being out in nature, hiking, watching birds, indigenous flowers: flowering fynbos, whales, hunting dolphins and grunting seals.
I am not a TV person. I read widely, listen to many podcasts.
I love art galleries, theatre and opera. Lockdown gave me the greatest gift: The Metropolitan (metopera.org).
PPS: I am more than happy to share photos - please ask.
About His Ideal Match
Its hard to answer this question in a sensible way because every person is special and offers so much.
So I would like to say I am truly open to many possibilities as I do not want to close off what could be a truly great relationship by having a preconceived set of requirements.
If you are intelligent and attractive, that is a great plus. If you enjoy nature, theatre and art, those are more pluses.
I feel the best is to connect in a safe way as it saves so much time and we will immediately know if we are attracted to each other. No point in having numerous message exchanges, and then when we do finally meet, one of finds there is no interest to go further, and it was all a waste of time.
So here is looking forward to that meeting!
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Plettenberg Bay, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
66 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
191cm (6' 3.2") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Ask me later | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Wealthy |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Garden Route (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox; Sikh | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Friendliness; Humility; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Investing; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Athletics; Birdwatching; Camping; Canoeing; Hiking; Running; Sailing; Scuba diving; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
