In His Own Words
About Him
If you are the type of person who likes to explore the possibilities of new, maybe earth shattering ideas, and discover the very boundaries of the universe, then you should get to know me... oh, and I'm also there just to be goofy, fun, annoying, a pillar of strength, and something warm by your side!
I have a pretty hectic lifestyle revolving around work, eating (sustaining myself) and church activities. What free time I have, I have to use to entertain myself (playing computer games and watching TV), better myself (reading), or reproducing my genes (which is why I'm on this site!)
Being super intelligent does have its perks, but also huge disadvantages! I lack social skills and are absolutely stumped at this thing called small talk. If I speak it's usually profound wisdom, but I've found that not many people actually care about wisdom, so I shut-up most of the time.
I live in my own little universe with standards so high it violently clashes with the harsh reality of this world we live in. Luckily these standards apply to me alone, so I guess I'm one of a few representatives of an ideal that others have simply given up on. I'm not perfect, however! I have hang-ups - things I'm not proud of. So don't be scared of me. I'm just human, like you.
If you win my trust you will find I'm not the cold stiff prude I seem to be. There is a goofy and warm side to me that a rare few are privileged to see.
About His Ideal Match
I'm looking for someone who enjoys reading, writing, hiking, someone who is fun loving, easygoing, warm, caring, likes to have an intimate evening at home, or just being with close friends and enjoying a good conversation.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Port Elizabeth (Rowallan Park), Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
44 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
Ask me later | |
Body Type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Port Elizabeth (Eastern Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 30 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Curly; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outrageous; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Investing; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Archery; Body building; Bowling; Boxing; Chess; Fencing; Golf; Hiking; Horse Riding; Martial arts; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Pool; Rock climbing; Running; Sailing; Shooting; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
More than once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
